7 Hands-Free Sex Toys Thatll Let You Lie Back and Enjoy the Ride
The We-Connect app lets couples control the product even when they’re miles apart, bringing a new charge to long-distance relationships. In fact, while most sex toys are great for solo play, they can also be a fun part of partnered sex if you want them to be. “It’s also a way to signal more of what you like, which is a thrilling way to grow the relationship.” In particular, those who can’t reach orgasm through penetrative sex, or people who simply want to explore new avenues of masturbation.
The Rechargeable is Finn’s favorite of Magic Wand’s offerings to recommend because it is cordless and features a smooth silicone head and quieter motor. Some finger vibrators come in the design of a finger sleeve that easily slips over your digit of choice to make solo play or foreplay as easy as pressing a button (or your erogenous zones). Other devices are slightly larger and pebble-shaped to stimulate more surface area at once. Look no further than a bullet vibrator—the lipstick-shaped We-Vibe Tango X is tops. “[It] offers vibrations that penetrate through the skin to stimulate the entire clitoris,” sex educator Javay Frye-Nekrasova, MEd, previously told SELF.
That move would have been my preference, but Dawner Prince (wisely, I’m sure) deferred to the growing population of pedalboard clutter obsessives. Croat-Stone SolidHandmade in Croatia, the Viberator is a stout and lovingly built little dude. The guts of the unit don’t reveal much because the circuit is flipped. What you do see, however, reflects an exacting mindset on the part of its builders.
The Satisfyer Pro 2 is an Adam & Eve top seller and also has the stamp of approval from my Mashable colleague Jess Joho, who deemed it the best budget suction clitoral stimulator. Given this track record, I had high expectations for the Magic Wand and it handedly met them. I hesitate to say wands are foolproof orgasm machines because every body is different — but for my cis woman self, that was certainly the case. In truth, there’s no singular “best” vibrator out there, as everyone has different tastes. Someone who loves a suction vibrator may think a wand is overhyped, and vice versa. Sensually crafted to stimulate all the vagina’s pleasure spots at once, Smile Makers The Romantic boasts an ultra-powerful motor and a unique motion technology that delivers smooth and rumbly effects.
Like the Magic Wand, it’s corded, so it can’t die on you mid-solo session. Meanwhile, the aluminum and titanium handle adds some heft, which increases the amount of pressure this vibe can deliver. We still think these toys are worth recommending, even though they didn’t make it into our top picks. (After all, every wand vibe can’t be the best!) Find even more SELF staffer and expert favorites below. Another highly praised rabbit-style vibrator is the We Vibe Nova ($149) viberators, which features a flexible arm that moves with you and has 10 vibration settings. This two-in-one vibrator has a far more modern design than the original Rabbit vibrator.
It’s not likely that one particular pattern will blow your mind more than the others, but some women may find that they have decently strong preferences. If you feel a little baffled about all the options, just stick with the constant vibration pattern. Smile Makers The Firefighter Intense Clitoral Vibrator is a uniquely-shaped clitoral vibrator extending the vibration to the labia for a broader stimulation.
Regardless, I found that the Womanizer Premium is user friendly and powerful, especially on the higher notches. With 12 intensity levels, there’s something for everyone, and I didn’t get near the top intensity in order to climax. Scouring the internet, asking sex educators, and looking at bestsellers on Babeland and Adam & Eve, however, led me to some of the most popular sex toys on the market. Vibrators of varying designs popped out as being the most functional or the best bang for its buck (literally) or the best blended orgasm. IntensityControl adjusts the thickness and throb of the vibe (chorus) effect from subtle waving all the way to a deep and strong «heart-beat» like warble. In vibrato mode it adjusts the amount of pitch de-tuning effect.SpeedControl adjusts the rate of the pulsations of the vibe (chorus) or vibrato effect.
If you’re feeling braver, you may want to try a fully insertable “egg”. While this might sound intimidating, it just means the tip of the vibrator is rounded and sits right on the G-spot. If you haven’t heard of the female G-spot, let alone know where it is , don’t worry, we’re here to ask the important questions. “The G-spot is an area of sensitive tissue located inside the vagina that, when stimulated, can create intense pleasure and powerful orgasms,” explains Annabelle Knight, sex and relationships expert at Lovehoney. Your first thought when it comes to this G-spot vibrator is likely, what is that? But this uniquely designed toy is engineered with pleasure-enhancing tech, and it gave one of our testers one of their strongest orgasms yet.
Below, browse some of the buzziest wand vibrators to get you started and finished. For simultaneous clitoral and G-spot stimulation, you really can’t beat a rabbit vibrator. Beyond being a super-fancy orgasm tracker, this is actually a solid vibrator too. The internal arm doesn’t vibrate, but the external clitoral arm certainly does. The wider, rounded head can provide more stimulation than other rabbit vibrators, and the customizable speeds and intensities from the app lets you get those vibrations that are just right. So yes, this vibrator is undeniably expensive, but it’s also undeniably unlike any other sex toy out there, which might just make it worth the splurge.
Whether you prefer a gentle hum or a more intense pulsation, you can tailor the experience to your liking. Control the speed and strength of the vibrations to find the perfect level of intensity for your needs. Richards recommends this classic toy, which he considers “the gold standard of vibrators,” for anyone who wants to introduce strong sensations into their sex life, regardless of their gender or anatomy. “If you find [it] a bit intense, using it over underwear is a way to enjoy the buzzing sensation on clits and cocks without excessive direct stimulation,” he suggests.