13 Best Male Masturbators of 2025 To Give Your Hand a Break
It comes with three different silicone heads and has seven vibration modes and six intensities so you can customize it to produce the exact sensations you like best. Plus, if you want a little G-spot action it can be used internally too. The shape and power of wand vibrators in particular make them great for more than just intimacy. You could use it for total-body massage, hammering out sore muscles, and of course, on erogenous zones beyond clitoral stiumlation. “Wand vibrators can be incorporated into partnered sexual activities, enhancing the experience for all parties involved ,” she says. With an impressive 16 settings and countless ways to bend it, the features of this Bluetooth-compatible vibrator make it very easy to customize your play session, which is why we think it’s the best G-spot vibrator on the market.
Not only is it an impressive 25.5 inches in total length, but it serves many purposes, transforming into a cock-ring, a G-spot stimulator, a clitoral or prostate massager, and much more. Its flexible silicone composition and unique design makes it a perfect sex toy for anyone. Remote sex toys can be worn out in public, providing a discreet way to get your thrills. For those who like a little kink, it’s a simple way to amp up the sexual tension. Whether you’re playing locally or long-distance, this remote controlled vibrator is sure to take your pleasure to new heights.
With sex toys, it’s often the case that you get what you pay for, but this sleek rabbit from the experts at Bondara bucks that trend. It was an instant hit with our panellists, who couldn’t get enough of the marble-effect design and smooth silicone material.Unlike some rabbits, which can take a while to get to grips with, everyone found this a cinch to use. The ergonomic design meant it was comfortable to grip for lengthy periods and the buttons were responsive and easy to reach. It offers a whopping 10 vibration modes and six different speeds, so you can experiment until you find what works for you. The motor wasn’t as quiet as some of the other devices in this round-up, but on the plus side, it’s waterproof and the battery is long-lasting. While it may seem like a tool just used for fun, the best sex toys offer many health benefits for you and your relationships.
As such, I’d recommend it to people who already know that they enjoy dual-stimulation (or who are all ears for rabbits, if you will). Turns out, getting down and dirty with a toy made to resemble escargot doesn’t just allow me to levitate in pleasure—it also lifts my mood. “It makes sense that a toy shaped like a snail might feel good emotionally, too,” Wright says.
“They are designed to go in your butt and stay in your butt,” Wright says. This creates a feeling of fullness while leaving your hands free for other activities. Meanwhile, anal beads are meant to move in and out of your butt, massaging all of the nerves you have down there, she adds. Some anal toys also vibrate, notes psychotherapist Joy Berkheimer, PhD, LMFT, an expert at SXWA, a sexual wellness award platform vibrator, which can feel even better. Smile Maker’s Ballerina is designed to wrap your entire vulva in a hug of rumbly vibrations. It’s curved to match the shape of your body, which means you can use the toy hands-free when you’re lying on your back.
Not to mention, there are proven mental and sexual health benefits to getting your O, which a good sex toy can all but guarantee. In 2021, there was a study that found subjects who were sexually active (yes, solo play counts as “active”) experienced less anxiety and depression. For a simple but powerful vibe, look no further than this elegantly designed, waterproof model from Dame, which is meant to stay in place during intercourse and provide pleasurable sensations to both partners. While the mechanics of that takes some trial and error, you can’t beat the Eva’s powerful vibrations, which are also lovely for solo play. Though it has a shorter run time and fewer settings than some of the other options on this list, the Eva reminds us that less can be more; its three high-intensity settings are more than sufficient.
I also asked some experts about their favorite grinders and how they like to use them. “[Grinding toys are] perfect if you’re playing solo and want to keep things hands-free,” Madison says. Strap-on sex often benefits from the addition of a grinder, too, especially the kind that fits behind the dildo base in a harness to provide some extra stimulation and cushioning. Anyone of any gender or sexuality can use suction toys, but this one is a standout for LGBTQ+ couples in particular—or cis-het couples interested in anal play and pegging.
Its ergonomic shape and smooth silicone construction ensure comfortable wearability, while the powerful yet whisper-quiet motor delivers intense sensations. With its remote control feature, users can easily adjust vibration patterns and intensity levels without drawing attention. Whether worn internally or externally, the Magic Flamingo offers customizable stimulation for spontaneous adventures. Rounder and not quite as oblong as the similarly small bullet vibrators, egg vibrators are designed to fit inside the vagina and target the G-spot.
Most vibrators can be lightly immersed in water, but read the instructions to find out if your silicone toy can be cleaned in the dishwasher. When browsing less expensive sex toys, your best bet is to shop at reputable retailers, says Wright. Alternatively, you can watch for sales—some of which we cover here at SELF.
The We-Vibe Moxie is a small but mighty clitoral vibrator that can be worn underneath your clothes. Moxie gives you a discreet yet powerful way to get off, no matter where you are. This rotating vibrator offers a whirling sensation precisely for G-spot stimulation, and with SenseMotion™ technology, you can control the movements with just a flick of the wrist. Melt is waterproof for underwater fun, and with 2 hours of continuous play, you might just have to call in sick to work tomorrow. With up to 2 hours of continuous use, this vibe will make you feel like the goddess you are.